Building Respect in the Photography Scene.
You see a band you love. They already have a photographer. You admire their work — but you want that job.
It’s tempting to slide into their DMs anyway, offer your services, and hope the band picks you next time. But here’s the truth:
That energy? People feel it. And it rarely leads where you want to go.
This Industry Is Built on Trust
Tour photography and music content creation are based on relationships. Artists work with people they know, respect, and feel comfortable around. If you try to slide into someone else’s spot behind their back, it’s not just unprofessional — it damages your reputation.
Even if you’re talented. Even if you think you could do it better.
The way you move in this industry matters. So does how you treat your peers.
Focus on Your Own Path
Instead of playing the replacement game, play the long game.
Support other photographers and content creators. Celebrate their work. Build your own voice, style, and relationships. Create work that reflects who you are — not just what someone else is doing.
Uplifting others creates community. Competing to undercut people erodes it.
When Is It Okay to Reach Out?
There are respectful ways to connect with artists — even when they already have someone on their team. Here's when it makes sense:
The artist puts out a public call for content creators.
You’re offering a different kind of service. (e.g. they have a photographer, but you shoot video)
You’re not asking to replace someone — you’re offering future support.
How to Say It Without Overstepping
If you’re unsure how to approach an artist respectfully, here’s a simple example:
“Hey, I love what you’re doing visually! I know you’re already working with someone, but if you ever find yourself needing an extra hand in the future — I'd love to stay in touch.”
Short. Kind. No pressure. No drama.
This scene is small. Word spreads. And your attitude follows you.
Support the people doing the work now. Build real relationships. Let artists see that you respect the scene, not just chase spots.
There’s room for everyone — but only if we treat each other like we belong.
Be the kind of creative others want to collaborate with. That’s what lasts.